<div id="ref-outside-component" v-on:click="consoleRef">
  <component-father ref="outsideComponentRef">
  </component-father>
  <p>ref在外面的组件上</p>
</div>

  var refoutsidecomponentTem={
    template:"<div class='childComp'><h5>我是子组件</h5></div>"
  };
  var refoutsidecomponent=new Vue({
    el:"#ref-outside-component",
    components:{
      "component-father":refoutsidecomponentTem
    },
    methods:{
      consoleRef:function () {
        console.log(this); // #ref-outside-component   vue实例
        console.log(this.$refs.outsideComponentRef); // div.childComp vue实例
      }
    }
  });

<!--ref在外面的元素上-->
<div id="ref-outside-dom" v-on:click="consoleRef" >
  <component-father>
  </component-father>
  <p ref="outsideDomRef">ref在外面的元素上</p>
</div>

  var refoutsidedomTem={
    template:"<div class='childComp'><h5>我是子组件</h5></div>"
  };
  var refoutsidedom=new Vue({
    el:"#ref-outside-dom",
    components:{
      "component-father":refoutsidedomTem
    },
    methods:{
      consoleRef:function () {
        console.log(this); // #ref-outside-dom  vue实例
        console.log(this.$refs.outsideDomRef); //  <p> ref在外面的元素上</p>
      }
    }
  });

<!--ref在里面的元素上-->
<div id="ref-inside-dom">
  <component-father>
  </component-father>
  <p>ref在里面的元素上</p>
</div>

  var refinsidedomTem={
    template:"<div class='childComp' v-on:click='consoleRef'>" +
            "<h5 ref='insideDomRef'>我是子组件</h5>" +
         "</div>",
    methods:{
      consoleRef:function () {
        console.log(this); // div.childComp  vue实例 
        console.log(this.$refs.insideDomRef); // <h5 >我是子组件</h5>
      }
    }
  };
  var refinsidedom=new Vue({
    el:"#ref-inside-dom",
    components:{
      "component-father":refinsidedomTem
    }
  });

<!--ref在里面的元素上--全局注册-->
<div id="ref-inside-dom-all">
  <ref-inside-dom-quanjv></ref-inside-dom-quanjv>
</div>

  Vue.component("ref-inside-dom-quanjv",{
    template:"<div class='insideFather'> " +
          "<input type='text' ref='insideDomRefAll' v-on:input='showinsideDomRef'>" +
          " <p>ref在里面的元素上--全局注册 </p> " +
         "</div>",
    methods:{
      showinsideDomRef:function () {
        console.log(this); //这里的this其实还是div.insideFather
        console.log(this.$refs.insideDomRefAll); // <input type="text">
      }
    }
  });

  var refinsidedomall=new Vue({
    el:"#ref-inside-dom-all"
  });